tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7217731282921045344.post8735552378034613886..comments2023-11-07T05:31:32.280-05:00Comments on My Thoughts - Uninterrupted: Resisting ChangeLaura @ My Thoughts-Uninterruptedhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03836990493552363157noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7217731282921045344.post-45085858766827648232009-03-30T19:23:00.000-04:002009-03-30T19:23:00.000-04:00Wow, you guys. It's cool to see it from another p...Wow, you guys. It's cool to see it from another perspective. Pokey and I aren't married, and we have actually SET OUT TO figure out ways that we can hang in the same house (his or mine) and just do normal everyday stuff. We're good at planning dates and outings, but "parallel play" (i.e., I'm on the computer, he's grading papers, etc.) is foreign. Maybe I should tell him we don't need to rush that because we'll have plenty of time when we get married to do that (and then NOT want to!).Sassy Britcheshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00346700962941797782noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7217731282921045344.post-26307034525760607202009-03-30T13:58:00.000-04:002009-03-30T13:58:00.000-04:00I'm working on that balance too... I always feel l...I'm working on that balance too... I always feel like I'm saying "No" to friends, or I feel guilty if I take time on the computer while we're at home, because we only have so many hours together... but I need time to do the things I like, too! It's so hard, but we're slowly working out the perfect balance.rachaelgkinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18002691394373545956noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7217731282921045344.post-17572847190269268492009-03-30T08:04:00.000-04:002009-03-30T08:04:00.000-04:00I'm sorry that things are a little hard. I'm not a...I'm sorry that things are a little hard. I'm not a big fan of change either.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7217731282921045344.post-81040922700097295492009-03-30T07:48:00.000-04:002009-03-30T07:48:00.000-04:00Im not a big fan of change unless it's positive.. ...Im not a big fan of change unless it's positive.. : )LWLHhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13975262231105253072noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7217731282921045344.post-33140723938374850092009-03-30T01:06:00.000-04:002009-03-30T01:06:00.000-04:00There really does need to be the PERFECT balance o...There really does need to be the PERFECT balance of alone and together time. It is so hard to find and every time you think you got it, nope. Either you slip out of habit again or it just isn't right.<BR/><BR/>I think you will find your "perfect" time soon. Good that you are being patient :)Gabrielle Amandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14654300417854751410noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7217731282921045344.post-76799536331139034652009-03-30T00:19:00.000-04:002009-03-30T00:19:00.000-04:00It takes a lot of work to find the alone time bala...It takes a lot of work to find the alone time balance. Once you get in a good routine something happens to change that up. You'll get it again. You will.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7217731282921045344.post-8751862220942894092009-03-29T20:36:00.000-04:002009-03-29T20:36:00.000-04:00I have the same hard time with changes, especially...I have the same hard time with changes, especially things like workplace.Maggie Mayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14699674732274478502noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7217731282921045344.post-17011664493504172892009-03-29T20:17:00.000-04:002009-03-29T20:17:00.000-04:00I can relate to your first and last paragraph too ...I can relate to your first and last paragraph too well!Heatherlynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09355263068372248035noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7217731282921045344.post-57898559875981937642009-03-29T16:49:00.000-04:002009-03-29T16:49:00.000-04:00Change is super hard (unless I win the lottery, th...Change is super hard (unless I win the lottery, then I'm ALL ABOUT IT). I love living alone. It's fantastic--I wouldn't have it any other way.<BR/><BR/>Hmmm...maybe that's why I didn't marry the Ex...Young Travelerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13002283624407053039noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7217731282921045344.post-78818170153654052922009-03-29T16:45:00.000-04:002009-03-29T16:45:00.000-04:00Mmm I hate change, too!Mmm I hate change, too!d.a.r.https://www.blogger.com/profile/06915354259913245831noreply@blogger.com