It's Thursday, which means it's time for another one of Mama Kat's Writers Workshops. This week she had several good topics to choose and I'm apparently incapable of making decisions so I plan on doing two other ones I like tomorrow and Saturday so check back if you are interested.
The first topic I chose was: You were recently laid off. Instead of moping around, you've viewed it as a chance to start fresh. Pick a new career and write about your first day on the job.
When I was young I always pretended I was a travel assistant or a secretary. I'd collect all of my papers or tickets in a little box and "handle" the fake phone lines. I think I just really liked playing with paper to be honest. When I got a little older I pretended I was a teacher. I would line up my dolls in my room and take roll. On my dresser at my mom's house you can still see where a few made up (and misspelled) student names are engraved in the wood. Oops.
In high school and college I started dreaming bigger. I wanted to be a business woman. I wanted to be important and proud of my job. As I got closer to the interview process I started to realize I wasn't confident enough or enough of a go-getter to do the dream job I had pictured in my mind. I also realized I was way to set on where I wanted to live and too big of a family person to do all the moving around being successful requires.
I found a job and it opened my eyes to how big companies really work. All the challenges I thought that wouldn't exist anymore in the business world was still there. I learned that some people only live to work and don't understand when family and life in general can sometimes get in the way.
If I were to be laid off I would be picking from two options on how to make my fresh start.
Option A: I would like to become a small business owner. I have always had this idea in the back of my mind. I know it would be hard work, but I think it would be worth the challenge because I would be doing something I want to do! As for the type of business it would be some sort of gift shop filled with all the things I love - dinnerware, entertaining supplies, and sit-arounds (and if you don't know what that is, because my husband makes fun of this word, it's all the little stuff that sits around your house).
Option B: I know this isn't specifically considered a career per say, but I would love to be a housewife. I've always been very family oriented and making every thing go smoothly in the home is an integral part of making a happy family life. I could cook, bake, and clean while everyone was gone to school or work so that we could all spend more time together when everyone gets home. I think that is something I could take pride in and look forward to doing it when the time comes. I tried to talk Michael into letting me be a stay at home puppy mom, but for some reason that just didn't fly.
One day I will do both of these options, but for now I will be where I am until they tell me I can't work here anymore or until we move. Crazy enough I can't think of one thing that I would like to do in the mean time, not because I'm in love with what I'm doing, but more so that I only want to do the two options above and unfortunately they just aren't possible at this time.

Thursday, February 12, 2009
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Oh, you should definitely consider that being a housewife IS a career! One I'm sure you'll be quite proud to do when the time comes (along with your sit-around business)! Sounds like you've got it all planned out (which is more than I can say for moi).
ReplyDeleteI came over from the linky at MamaKat's.
ReplyDeleteI love that you put stay-at-home wife in the career category. It IS a career. Right now, I am a stay-at-home-wife/mother. I am a licensed attorney, but I don’t practice law. I picked the housewife career. And I LOVE it. Some people don’t get that though. I think I'm going to follow your blog now!
I often wish I was a business woman, working in a high-rise, wearing my Manolo pumps and drinking Starbucks. Reality - sweaty classroom full of smelly teenagers. But I still get my Starbucks and fake Manolos ;)
ReplyDeleteIf I could change a career, and myself, I'd be a housewife. I don't like Oprah though, that might be a problem.
ReplyDeleteI like the housewife idea too. The business woman idea is always a good choice, if you can spend life alone or just find someone else with the same life, but I would need more togetherness than just sleeping in the same bed at night.
ReplyDeleteI think it is so fun to think about another career.
ReplyDeleteYou've been tagged! http://gotobeskinnybitch.blogspot.com/
ReplyDeleteIf I could change careers, I would become a Professional Playlist Maker or a Color Namer at J.Crew (Burnt Papaya for orange? I can do that). Oh, what's that you say? Those careers don't exist.
ReplyDeleteGuess I better keep my day job.
Great post! I love Thursdays.
jessie
I'd totally want to be a Desperate Housewife. That show makes it look awesome.
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